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My Mother's Funeral: The Show
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28 January - 15 February 2025

My Mother's Funeral: The Show

28 January - 15 February 2025

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Want to bury your mum? That’ll be £4,000.

Abigail can't afford for her mum to be dead. No, really. It's four grand just for the funeral. Extra for flowers. Even more if you want sausage rolls.

And if you’ve got no money: a council plot and an unmarked grave.

The solution? Turn her grief into content. Write a play from her ‘unique working-class lens’. Package her dead mum into a nice neat story. Sell tickets.

Following a sell-out Fringe First winning run at the Edinburgh Fringe, Kelly Jones's razor-sharp new play rips into life’s final inequality and asks what happens when your loss becomes someone else's entertainment.


A Paines Plough, Belgrade Theatre Coventry and Mercury Theatre Colchester production.
Originally produced by Paines Plough, Mercury Theatre, Belgrade Theatre, Landmark Theatres, and Royal & Derngate, Northampton.
My Mother’s Funeral: The Show was originally commissioned by the Mercury Colchester, enabled by a grant from the New Play Commission Scheme, a project set up by the Writers’ Guild of Great Britain, UK Theatre and the Independent Theatre Council, and funded by Arts Council England, the Theatre Development Trust and donations from actors, directors, playwrights and producers.
My Mother’s Funeral: The Show was developed with the support of the National Theatre’s Generate programme.
Photography by Nicola Young
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WRAPAROUND EVENTS

REVIEWS

★★★★

“These are two weighty themes—grief and class war—but they are handled by Jones with a lightness of touch and a needling sense of humour.”

The Guardian

★★★★★

“A true highlight.”

A Young(ish) Perspective

★★★★

“A warm, tender and at times deeply moving play”

The Stage

★★★★

“A clever, funny, incisive look at money, class and theatre- as well as death.”

The Scotsman

★★★★

“Sharp and very funny”

British Theatre Guide

★★★★

“Incredibly witty and punchily crafted.”

WhatsOnStage

★★★★

“It’s a gathering, tragicomic calamity which keeps the audience gripped to the last”

The Quinntessential Review

Cast & Team

Samuel Armfield
  • Darren
Debra Baker
  • Mum
Nicole Sawyerr
  • Abigail

SUPPORT

My Mother’s Funeral: The Show by Kelly Jones deals with complex and difficult issues related to the death of a loved one, grieving, class, funerals, and funeral poverty.

We’ve compiled a list of mental health charities and support groups below, for anyone who has been affected by the issues raised in the play.

If you need immediate support, or would just like someone to chat to, Samaritans offer a 24/7 helpline across the UK – call 116123 for free.

If you prefer to text, the UK also has a free 24/7 service: just text SHOUT to 85258.

Ashes to Admin by Evie King, tales from the Caseload of a Council Funeral Officer

A Heart That Works by Rob Delaney

More people in England being buried or cremated by councils, survey finds.

BBC Radio 4: We Need to Talk About Death
Joan Bakewell and a panel of experts discuss death and dying, exploring the choices open to us and confronting the questions we fear the most.

BBC The Bottom Line: The cost of dying
On final farewells, and how the death industry works.

BBC The Untold: The real cost of a funeral

BBC Money Box: Cost of Bereavement

Bereavement Help & Support on GOV.UK website

Cruse Bereavement Support to learn more about the grieving process.

National Bereavement Service for ways to manage grief.

The Good Grief Trust for support if you are newly bereaved.

Down to Earth – Quaker Social Action offer practical support and advice about funeral costs.

The Marie Curie helpline for ongoing support over the phone.

Sue Ryder’s Online Bereavement Support includes an online community to talk to others who are grieving, a video chat counselling service and personalised grief support by text message

AtaLoss for free live chat with a bereavement counsellor.

Coffin Club UK offers support, advice and courses about funeral costs and celebrants.

Dying Matters Week – Hospice UK works to create an open culture in which we’re comfortable talking about death, dying and grief.

Death Cafe are organised meet-ups around the world for people to drink tea, eat cake and discuss death. Their aim is to increase awareness of death to help people make the most of their (finite) lives.

Let’s Talk About Loss UK a safe space to talk through taboos and address the reality of losing someone close to you when you are young.

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